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Originally Posted by upstatedoc
wow if I told someone I loved them and they said sorry I would be gone in 60 seconds. you're lucky she stuck around
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I completely understand. Now granted....we were seeing each other exclusively at that point. I told her I did have feelings for her, but couldn't tell her that I love her as that would be leading her on.
I told her I was definitely interested in seeing where things may go for us, but could understand if she felt differently.
I think she actually respected me for that as it showed her I wasn't using her. Plus she was a an independent woman who had been on her own for awhile, owned her own house, and successful career before we ever got together.
She had never been married, and I just wanted to make it clear that I took that kind of thing seriously as it would also involve my daughter's life as well....not just myself!